Love is the fusion of opposites in the understanding of feelings, thoughts, and attitudes. It is mutual tolerance, motivated by intense compatibility. True love has moved beyond the blindness of mere attraction. You have become enlightened, recognizing the strengths and weaknesses in the object of your love without being disillusioned or disappointed. True love is total adjustment to the other person, so that he or she becomes the most important person to you in the world. Love is motivation for communication, for it takes more energy to communicate than to copulate. Love is not possessive, for it has no need … Continue reading Love is the fusion, fuel…

Chances are that we’re in a completely different place in the world. Chances are that I’m in a city that is nothing like yours, or maybe it’s eerily similar to it. I can’t pretend to begin to know the lives of the people whose eyes are passing by these very words that I have typed. Even if I attempted to predict it, I probably end up being wrong over a thousand times. Or maybe, if you looked a bit closer, my story is a lot more similar to yours than you could ever imagine. Maybe you’re just as lost I … Continue reading A Story A Lot Like Yours…

I would be lying if I said that there wasn’t a time in my life when I imagined the perfect relationships mirrored the ones found in movies, shows, and novels. Where every date was an adventure that turned in to an unforgettable memory, where the right words were spoken every single time, and where everything in the end always worked out so smoothly. But reality is, that life is much more than just movies, shows, and novels. We learn that chances are, we won’t have that relationship that Hollywood has made famous. More often than not, the right words will … Continue reading Imperfectly Perfect… love