In the arena of an unstable household, one learns early that the world is not a sanctuary designed for comfort. This realization—often elusive to many well into adulthood—becomes a cornerstone of understanding. Constant volatility teaches that life can pivot in an instant, and danger may lurk in the most unexpected corners. Yet, for those who have navigated such tumultuous waters, crises are not startling disruptions but familiar companions. The illusion of an inherently benevolent world shielding one’s existence is a myth long dispelled.

This upbringing, though fraught with unpredictability, bestows a rare gift: an appreciation for tranquility. In a world where many chase the thrill of excitement, those shaped by instability seek solace in stillness. They do not crave the adrenaline of chaos but treasure the fragile moments of peace. It is in this serene appreciation that they discover their strength—a quiet resilience forged in the fires of their past. 🙏🏾❤️

©️ Beatriz Esmer