Success is a deeply personal and unique concept for each of us. Yet, we live in a society where success is often defined by external standards—by what others have decided it should be. One of the most common inner struggles I witness among awakening souls is the quiet, persistent feeling of “not being good enough,” rooted in fear of what others might think.

Personal worth is still frequently measured by visible accomplishments—material possessions, exams passed, properties acquired, certificates earned, goals achieved, and targets met. More often than not, the greatest measure of success is how much validation and approval one receives from others.

If you don’t fall into any of these categories, consider yourself blessed.

The traditional model of success is so deeply ingrained in our collective psyche that it can be incredibly difficult to shake—even for those on a path of awakening. It’s like a stubborn stain that refuses to lift, no matter how hard you scrub.

As the soul begins to awaken, it’s inevitable that traditional achievements start to lose their appeal. No amount of external success can satisfy the soul’s deeper longing. True success becomes about how deeply you’ve discovered your authentic self, unveiled your soul, and embraced it fully.

Those who dig deeper often feel a yearning to pursue what brings them joy and to serve a greater purpose. They come to realize that inner peace cannot be found through society’s conventional models of gain and achievement.

So I raise a toast—to my home, to life, to my loves, to my family. This is the light I need, the light that illuminates me. I cast myself into the sea—a sea of people—where I dive without fear, where I feel whole. 🙏❤️

©️ Beatriz Esmer

Photo: My mother’s hands