In my humble existence, I stand as a woman shaped by the hands of time, a witness to its teachings and a testament to its wisdom. Through the ebb and flow of life’s currents, I have learned invaluable lessons that have sculpted the very essence of my being. Time has taught me the profound art of loving life, of cherishing each moment as a precious gift bestowed upon us. It has shown me that amidst the trials and tribulations, there is beauty to be found in every corner, waiting to be embraced. With an open heart, I have learned to … Continue reading Time: my cordial teacher

In longing and yearning, there existed a language that stirred my soul, a language I ached for years to learn. It was vibrant, like the passionate hue of red, pulsating with life and energy. This language was more than mere words; it encapsulated an entire culture, a world I had intimately embraced in the realm of dreams. He, the embodiment of this language, became my guide and teacher. With his mastery and command, he unraveled the intricacies of this culture, weaving its threads into the fabric of my being. In his disciplined and faithful approach, he nurtured my understanding, allowing … Continue reading I loved him, Yoruba, my culture, with a love that knew no bounds.

The tragic loss of innocent lives and the erosion of reason in the face of fundamentalism is a deeply distressing reality that we must confront with utmost sincerity and empathy. The death of reason, coupled with the devastating consequences it brings, is a stark reminder of the importance of fostering understanding, compassion, and critical thinking in our societies. In any clash of fundamentalisms, it is crucial to acknowledge that there can be no justification for the deaths of children or any innocent individuals. Their lives are precious, and their well-being should be safeguarded above all else. It is a collective … Continue reading There are no excuses for the deaths of children…

Every now and then, in the vast expanse of my existence, my internal seas dry up, leaving behind a desolate landscape of arid climate, where hot winds scorch the earth and empty voids stretch out endlessly. During these moments, my feet stumble upon the harsh terrain, each step more grueling than the last, and my soul yearns for sustenance, craving nourishment to quell its hunger. It is in these times of barrenness that tears become the seeds I must sow, planting flowers that will bloom and bring life to this arid world. As I traverse this seemingly futile path, I … Continue reading Tides

I find myself in this precise moment. Three simple words encapsulate my presence, my essence, and my connection to this world. “I am here.” Within these words lies a profound truth, a declaration of my existence on this earth. It is not a mere coincidence or happenstance that I find myself in this particular place, on this specific continent, within the boundaries of this city. This is my home, my domain, and my reality. In the grand tapestry of history, I am woven into the fabric of this epoch, this century, this year. It is within these temporal boundaries that … Continue reading I am here …

Please don’t treat me as though I am common or scold me because I am not. Look at me when I tell you that I love you, listen closely when I have the courage to ask you to share your love for me. For that is when my soul is trying to connect. That is when I need you most. Try not to look down on me for flashing my vulnerabilities, look into my eyes. Remember that: I am open, not weak. When I reach out for you, it is not your back that will teach me a lesson, but … Continue reading I am not defined by a momentary conclusion: I human, I am a soul, I am flawed, and I am love… like you!

In the quiet embrace of a Saturday morning, lay bare upon the fresh sheets, a canvas for self-discovery. Feel the vulnerability and pride intertwine as you bask in the warmth of your own skin. Blushing, you peek through your fingers, witnessing the gentle dance of sunlight upon your stomach, a testament to the beauty that resides within. In this moment, choose to love yourself, to find solace and fulfillment within your own being. Instead of seeking validation in others, let the whispers of affection escape your lips, caressing your thighs with tenderness. Imagine them as a vast landscape, adorned with … Continue reading Have a love affair with yourself

the final moments of my earthly journey, as I transcend the boundaries of life, I shall embark on a quest to revisit the fragments of time that eluded me, those precious instants when I was distant from the embrace of the sea. For the sea, with its vastness and eternal rhythm, holds a profound allure that resonates deep within my soul. In life, there were moments when I found myself far from the soothing whispers of the waves, the gentle caress of the salty breeze against my skin. These were the instances when I yearned for the symphony of the … Continue reading When I die I will go back to look for the instants that I didn’t live near the sea.

The journey of self-discovery is an essential aspect of our existence. As we navigate through life, it is crucial to immerse ourselves in personal experiences. By doing so, we shield our eyes from the burning effects of unfamiliarity and the poison that the world may offer. It is through these experiences that we cultivate a sense of familiarity and develop the ability to appreciate the beauty that surrounds us. Beauty, in its purest form, possesses the power to counteract fanaticism. It has a direct and profound impact on our will, reaching deep within our souls. Unlike a poisoned intellect, which … Continue reading My cheap philosophy

In life, there are two profound lessons that one may come to learn. Firstly, the experience of hearing the sound of another person’s heartbeat alongside your own can be likened to placing a seashell against your ear, where the resounding echoes of the ocean can be heard. This metaphorical comparison highlights the deep connection and sense of intimacy that can be felt when two hearts beat in unison, symbolizing a profound bond between individuals. Secondly, the concept of being truly naked extends beyond the physical realm. It transcends the mere act of undressing for the purpose of engaging in sexual … Continue reading Lessons